The muse of four of my novels has died.

January 5, 2010


Albina Handler January 19, 1940-April 5, 2010

A Song for Mama

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9 Responses to “The muse of four of my novels has died.”

  1. DARKinside says:

    ooh no! :(

    another loss, Paullina i'm so sorry! it's so painful to lose a mom!

    condolences, i'm close to you all!

  2. Khulood. says:

    I'm very sorry for your loss, Paullina. From what you've written it's so clear she was a wonderful, extraordinary religious woman.
    She will live in your heart forever.

    My condolences.

  3. Danielle says:

    So sorry to hear of your loss Paullina. I think your mother and grandmother would be so PROUD to have known you wrote so beautifully for them, about them.

  4. Opinionated Ophelia says:

    What a wonderful woman. I'm so sorry you lost her.

  5. Allacaya says:

    Dear Paullina,

    I'm very sorry for your loss. Another one in such a short time. Remember the beautiful times with her, so she'll be with you forever.
    Which were the novels she inspired?

    I'm sending you strength to carry on. My condolences.

  6. remember orbeli says:

    My heart breaks for you Paullina. Your mother's legacy is eternal, and there is no greater gift than to live a life under the glow of a mother like yours;a life that shined with truth, love, and hope. But the greatest of these is love, and one day, you shall again meet in Paradise. Until then, my heart flies out to you, my prayers are for you and your family. Stay strong.

  7. Sherryl says:

    Dear Paullina
    I am only just now reading your blog. My heartfelt sympathies. As Spencer said, "These knocks just keep a coming." My own mother turns 70 next week. I can't imagine my world without her. It appears your mother was an immensely strong and vibrant woman. I'm glad she was a person who inspired you. Long may she continue to do so.
    Hugs
    Sherryl

  8. Joanna. says:

    I'm so very sorry for your loss, Paullina. She sounds like she would have been a beautiful person, inside and out. Your words are like precious diamonds; to be handled with the utmost care. I'm sure she would have been so proud of you. My condolences.

  9. Carolyn says:

    I am so sorry to hear of this loss, and 9 months later. I lost my Dad on May 12, 2010 and we are approaching some 'anniversary' dates of some of the issues that began his decline in heath. It is so very comforting to hear your beautiful words describing your mother. What a great tribute to her. Thanks so much for sharing and bringing comfort to others in your own time of loss. God Bless.